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Highlights of Pandemic Weekly E-mails

YES 

It could happen any time, tornado,
earthquake, Armageddon. It could happen.
Or sunshine, love, salvation.

It could, you know. That’s why we wake
and look out––no guarantees
in this life.

But some bonuses, like morning,
like right now, like noon,
like evening. 
      William Stafford
                                                         

"Why is it so hard to practice?"  It felt difficult to answer since there seem to be infinite reasons. Then I remembered the Kleshas, also called the afflictions or obstacles to yoga. The 5 kleshas are: spiritual ignorance, ego, attachment to pleasure, aversion to pain and clinging to life. One of the benefits of practice is it weakens these obstacles. The Yoga Sutras say we need self discipline, self study and surrender.  Getting on the mat is the first step for many of us. The more we practice, the more the positive imprints or samskaras are formed. 

When we forget that our essential nature is PURE, ETERNAL and JOYFUL we are in Avidya; spiritual ignorance. Our yoga practice trains us to awaken to our true nature. 

In YOGA, practice is defined as effort made over a long period of time, without interruption and with devotion. And on this path of Yoga, effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure. Even a little effort toward spiritual awareness will protect you from the greatest fear. Every act of kindness, your asana practice, each long deep breath in and out, this is all Yoga. 

There are lot of words for the Soul in the sacred texts.  Here are some: the Soul, the Self, the Seer, the Atman, pure consciousness and Purusha.  According to the wisdom texts our true nature is PURE, ETERNAL and JOYFUL. To experience this we need to control or train our mind and yoga is a practice to do this. 

Body is the bow, asana is the arrow, & the soul is the target.”     BKS Iyengar 


In Yoga there is the Self and the self.  The self with a small S is Asmita or "I am-ness". I am a mother, I am a teacher, etc.  Patanjali, the author of the Yoga Sutras, says that Asmita is one of the kleshas/obstacles on the path of yoga that can cause suffering. Self with a big S is Purusha, the innermost conscious self, not our body/mind.  Remembering this is part of the practice.

I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being!     Hafiz      

Yoga is a liberation (freedom from suffering) tradition and the sacred texts give us several methods to get there. One method is the two fold path of Practice and Surrender. Practice is defined as a steadfast effort, done over a long period of time, without interruption and with devotion. Surrender is giving our best without attachment to the results. 

Asana is one of the 8 limbs of yoga. Why practice the 8 limbs of yoga? According to the yoga teachings, practicing the 8 limbs of yoga gives the practitioner viveka (which is discrimination between the real and the unreal).  We need viveka to remove avidya (ignorance, the forgetting of who we really are or confusing the body/mind with the soul or the permanent with the impermanent or Self with the non-Self).  When ignorance is removed the Seer (our true Self) can be free. 


Yoga is so much more than the asanas/poses. Do a pose you enjoy and see what happens. Treat yourself with loving kindness. Close your eyes and breathe deeply through your nose. Lay on the floor and observe the sounds around you. Do not take any more than you need. Have compassion for those in distress. These are just some of the ways we practice true yoga.

If I view (everyday chores) as tasks to rush through on the way to something more important, they become a crushing waste of time. But from the perspective of Buddhist teachings, each of these activities is a golden moment, an opportunity for full awakening.  Anne Cushman                                                                                                                

Yogurt

I am passionate about using as little plastic as I can because I love our planet. I am far from perfect but I am getting better at it all the time.  Recycling is no longer a viable option.  This brings me to my post on how to make your own delicious yogurt.

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Makes 2 quarts yogurt:

 1.     Take out some already made yogurt to come to room temperature.  Make sure it is plain yogurt.

2.     Pour ½ gallon milk into a pot and bring to 1 boil or 180 degrees whisking occasionally.

3.     While milk is heating, fill 2 quart jars with boiling water so that the jars are warm.

4.     When the milk comes to 180 degrees, turn off heat and cool to 110 degrees, whisking occasionally.

5.     Pour the water out of your jars and whisk in 4 T yogurt to the milk and then pour immediately into the warm jars and close the lids.

6.     Place jars into a cooler with a blanket and let ferment for 24 hours. Remove and refrigerate.

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Meet Leah! Questions from JaiPure

Meet Leah!

Q: What brings you to your mat? 
A: I am inspired every single day by the complete devotion that BKS Iyengar brought to his asana practice. Working with my body as a way to know myself deeper is what brings me to the mat. I love the intelligence and exactness of the practice as it keeps me awake and present.

Q: What do you aim to provide students who attend your class?⠀
A: I aim to provide my students with a path inward to their deepest self, their true Self and an opportunity to let go of the outer demands. I hope my classes help people feel freedom and confidence in their physical body and some quieting of the mind.

Q: What are you up to off of your mat?⠀
A: I have 2 young daughters so I am busy. My husband and I are in the process of transforming our front lawn into a pollinator garden with only native plants. I am an environmentalist and try to inspire others to help our earth in whatever ways we can. I love to walk in the woods with my dog and someone I love and I spend a lot of time preparing nourishing food.

Q: What is JaiPure to you?⠀
A: Jaipure is a place for me to share my love of yoga with people to are open to receiving it. I am grateful I can walk and bike to the studio as it contributes to my desire to live a more simple life. I appreciate that it is a center owned by women who believe in the power of yoga and community. 
 

 

home

Between frequent visits with anxiety and self doubt I return home again with a huge exhalation. 

I want to be home and stay home. 

Home is my true Self. 

Byron Katie says Heaven.

I was flipping through one of her books years ago and came across this line that has never left me.

The thought that kicks you out of heaven could be "I'd be a little more comfortable if I had a pillow." 

Without that thought, you're in heaven—just sitting in your chair, being supported and being breathed. When you believe the thought that something is missing, what do you experience? The immediate effect may be subtle—only a slight restlessness as your attention moves away from what you already have. But with that shift of attention, you give up the peace you have as you sit in your chair. Seeking comfort, you give yourself discomfort. 

What if you did get a pillow? That could work (if you have a pillow). You may find yourself back in heaven again. It may be the very thing you needed. And perhaps you would be happier, and perhaps you wouldn't. In the meantime, there goes your peace.  

So, how do you get back to heaven? To begin with, just notice the thoughts that take you away from it. You don't have to believe everything your thoughts tell you. Just become familiar with the particular thoughts you use to deprive yourself of happiness. It may seem strange at first to get to know yourself in this way, but becoming familiar with your stressful thoughts will show you the way home to everything you need.
 

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I am a mother, wife and daughter.

I practice and teach Iyengar yoga and Pilates and love nature, wholesome fresh food, and helping others to heal with strong knowledge and a gentle touch.

We are a multi-cultural adoptive family living in Northern New Jersey.

My two radiantly, lively daughters are my most powerful and constant teachers.  

I have been on a spiritual journey for most of my life and believe that every experience, good or bad, presents an opportunity to learn and grow.

I want to live a life that is conscious, AWAKE and devoted to healing ourselves and our planet. 

I created this blog to have a place to share and explore issues such as food for healing, making our homes green and safe, ecologically sound cleaning, shopping and food choices and moving toward a zero or low waste lifestyle.With mindfulness as our guide we can live a life of simplicity, abundance and creativity! L'chaim!

"When we tug at a single thing in nature, we find it attached to the rest of the world." — John Muir